Personal Boundaries
Thanks for taking the time to read this! I don't generally get mad at others for accidentally crossing my boundaries from time to time, as I understand my boundaries may be more specific than some are used to. Feel free to just ask me if you're ever unsure about anything!
Likewise, I encourage you to tell me if I'm ever crossing your own boundaries or making you feel uncomfortable!
Don't
- Make physical contact without warning (unless agreed)
- Jumpscare me
- Shout at me
- Show me pictures of insects without warning
Do (ask first)
Physical contact (irl: before starting to touch me; online: at least once)
- Patting
- Holding
- Hugging
- Biting
- etc.
(CW: adult themes)
Kink/BDSM
You may engage in kink/BDSM activities with me if you are a trusted individual. I have a separate list of boundaries for that that I may send to those I am familiar with who ask for it / when the need arises.
Do (if I know you)
Pet names
I'm generally okay with friends I know using pet names for me! Examples:
- Sweetie
- Babe
- Honey
Non-physical things
- Compliments
- Teasing me
- etc.